From Canvas to Community: A Dream Fifteen Years in the Making

Charlie, a nonbinary 2D artist and animator from Russia, dreamed of Canada for nearly fifteen years. Initially, they imagined coming as a student, then later on a work visa. But as political and social realities in Russia became increasingly hostile toward LGBTQI+ people, they and their partner had to make a life-altering decision.

“In March 2022, I realized that I couldn’t just wait and dream anymore. My partner and I packed our things, prepared our pets, and decided to try and claim refugee status in Canada. After two years, ten moves, and lots of unexpected circumstances, we finally started our new life in Toronto in May 2024.”

Embracing Identity and Fluidity

Charlie prefers not to confine himself to strict labels.

“I’m trying not to label myself too hard and always stay open to new discoveries. At this point, labels have no importance to me — I am me, no matter what. But I also think it’s important to realize the existence of certain labels because unless you have an idea of a concept, you can’t really interact or play with it.”

This realization was life-changing. “I still remember how in my 20s, I first realized that I don’t have to be a girl or a boy, that there are other options — and they are infinite. It was like finally solving a puzzle I had been struggling with my whole life.”

The Power of Visibility in Media and Society

When asked about trans visibility in media and politics, Charlie expressed a mix of excitement and apprehension.

“Politics and societal situations make me feel scared and excited at the same time. I have this huge feeling that it’s all going to crumble very soon, and I can’t wait for it. The system just doesn’t work for anyone. To build something new, we need to stop trying to patch a broken machine.”

On media representation, Charlie has noticed a shift but isn’t entirely satisfied with the direction things are taking. “Queer media has become very sterile. Before, it was just about sex, but now there are barely any feelings in it at all — just a checkmark for a production company. I’m not sure it’s the representation I’d like to see. But then last year, we got I Saw The TV Glow, and I literally felt it touching my soul! I’m so hungry for more media like this.”

Strength Through Community and Self-Love

For Charlie, the essence of being trans isn’t just about gender or sexuality — it’s something even more profound.

“It’s mostly about being true to yourself no matter what. To always choose yourself despite any circumstances. For me now, it’s beyond gender or sexuality — it’s almost spiritual. It’s tough and requires a lot of trust, but it’s 100% worth it.”

Relocating to a new country taught Charlie one of the most valuable lessons: Asking for help. “It was hard at first, but over time, I realized that it’s only natural for people to help each other. And we also can’t read each other’s minds, so it’s important to ask.”

He also discovered a critical truth about relationships. “I realized I was trying to build connections out of fear, and it never worked. But when I acted from a place of love, new doors appeared in places I thought were dark corners.”

On this Trans Day of Visibility, Charlie has a heartfelt message for others facing persecution and hardship: “Choose yourself. You don’t need to break yourself to get validation. If you choose yourself, the right people will find you — you will naturally attract them. You are not alone and never were. Building community starts from within.”

Hopes, Dreams, and a Future Filled with Art

Now that Charlie has found safety in Canada, he is focusing on his passions and personal growth.

“I’m trying to reconnect with art on a deeper level! Years of commercial work messed with my sense of worth as an artist, and I’m now on a journey to bring all my fun back.”

On a practical level, his goals are to gain financial stability, get his refugee case approved, and make his current house feel like home.

Despite the hardships, Charlie remains hopeful. “I always know that after the darkest night comes the most beautiful sunrise.”

Recognizing Humanity, Embracing Solidarity

If Charlie could speak directly to policymakers and community leaders, his request would be simple: empathy.

“I would ask them to at least try to imagine themselves in such a situation. Or to think about a hardship in their life, even if it’s not related to relocation. Just dig into that feeling and try to relate to the people whose lives they are affecting.”

For those who’ve played a role in supporting Charlie’s journey, he has a message of deep gratitude: “You are wonderful and magical, and you literally changed someone else’s life!! And please take care of yourself and remember to rest well.”

As we celebrate Trans Day of Visibility, Charlie’s story is a testament to resilience, self-love, and the power of choosing yourself. Visibility matters, representation matters, and most of all — community matters.

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